The secret to good parenting is to have your children on your team. It is not a good feeling to know that your children are on the opposing team.
So how do you get your children to be on your team? Do you bribe them with candy, to do what you want them to do? Do you spank them if they disobey you?
But before a child can be trained, a parent must be trained. First ask yourself this question:
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